Two Days, Two Girls!

It's not what it sounds like, but boy I wish it was. The first girl, female, woman I met on HI5. I met her months ago on it I think, but you know how online people are some like me don't like to keep online friends and there are other, mainly female who want to keep everything online. The funny thing about it all is that she has a boyfriend; I refuse to call him her man because of the way he seems to act. Just to let you know I have not been perusing any female romantically, just friends as hard as that is to believe, but it’s the truth.

Well one day all of a sudden she opened up to me about her boyfriend. Her birthday just passed and since that day he has been acting weird she tells me. She asks me maybe he has another girl or cheated on her, I told her the truth based on my own acts in the past. And it could be true. I have acted distant to my girlfriend when I had sex with another girl, so I know the movements of cheaters. I told her what I thought but also try and help her work it out between the two of them because she was in love. She told me the conversation between them that started the argument and she was conflicted over weather to go see him that day.

It would have been the easiest thing in the world to try and break them up, but I know myself I don't like easy, and I know it would come back to haunt me. So I stood up and acted like the man I am and told her my thoughts of ways to work things out. At this point we have never met before so I wasn't going to push up n her sight unseen. I convinced her to take a shower, put on something sexy or pretty, put on some sweet smelling perfume and go over his house, and she did.

A week went by, I saw her online again. We talked again; she told me he was out with his boys, someone's birthday party, boy’s night out and all that shit. It sounded shady to me but I said nothing, so we continued to talk online. I figured and she thought also that he would be gone all night long so I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie, she refused, didn't want to do something to make him upset. I see from that she wasn't playing when she said she wanted to work things out with him, but I did want a chance to meet and see her in person. I asked if she wanted to bring a friend along as if to not seem like a date of some sort, she said she will call her friend and ask. I convinced her to meet me so we could talk, because like I said earlier I like to make online friends my real friends, and I wanted to see her.

So we met, she is very cute, much shorter than I thought and she is thick. Nice thick legs well looked good to me, small feet and the smallest hands I have ever seen in my life on a grown woman. We talked in a cold park by her house, I checked he out, nice smile, somewhat smart and intelligent with a hint of laziness because she said she doesn’t want to go back to college. I never tried to touch her, kiss her or do anything rude and out of order to her, I was totally respectful! She seemed like a good loving woman, but she had a man and I'm not the one to break up any relationship. I must have left her about 8:30 pm. She's not 100 percent my type but I can sense she can become that if she can get her act together. She is attractive, smart and very appealing to me sexually, but she has a boyfriend and it would be a waste of time to pursue her that way so I'm happy with becoming a friend of hers.

Later that night around 10:30pm I seen her online again and asked her what's up? She didn't want to type all that happened in the few hours since we left each other, so she called me. She explained to me everything that happened with these two hours. As soon as I left her she called her boyfriend, she wanted to see him, she went over and this guy is online when she comes over, chatting. She takes a shower, he still online, she get mad as any woman would when he seems to not want to get offline and be with hi girl. I have never done that in my life, I always shut the computer off when any girl comes over my house so they won't discover my porn collection on my computer. This guy stays online chatting to some girl when his sexy girlfriend goes in the shower; I would have been buck naked right behind her if that was me. He was even online when she came out the shower probably all wet and with a towel wrapped around her half naked, I would have had that towel on the floor and she on the bed doing big things, but that's just me!

She ended up leaving and coming home and talking to me. Since we don't really know each other I asked her what she always doing online since I know she don't talk to anyone and she said she play games online. So we ended up talking on the phone and playing online games till 1:30am.

Girl one done, Now Girl two........

Well this woman I've known for about ten years, I met her form online as well. The funny thing about that meeting is that we don't keep I contact via online. Once we met we remained friends in the real world. We met on the eve of me leaving for college in Philly, she had braces, she was young but I felt she would be a good potential girlfriend. We sent letters, we called, and we kept in touch the way friends supposed to. I came back to NY and she had a boyfriend I think, I wanted to date her seriously for a long time but either she wasn't ready for that or I wasn't her type. I think she told me I wasn't her type a few times, not really sure. In her college years she was a party girl and I think I didn't fit in the program at that time.

After her college tears, she changed, born-again Christian. Now if you know any people like this you know how they are. When I first found out about her new religious attitude she went full force trying to get me to feel the same way, but as usual I resisted. She tried many times. I did go to church once but just like she wasn't ready for me back then I wasn't ready for her and her new lifestyle. I had three girls at that time, one was my girlfriend, one was a fuck buddy and the other turned out to be my future fiancé. As of today all those relationship are not so tight and you can wonder why. My fuck buddy seems scared to see me, my girlfriend at that time has now become an occasional fuck buddy and my fiancé doesn't want to speak to me. I had another girl I was pursuing at that time, we went out a few times, today she got a man and don't want to fuck with me too much. Don't blame her!

So now I'm here alone with a broken heart, not looking for anything serious. I think she always liked me and she would even entertain a relationship with me of I change and go to church more often, but I'm totally not ready for that. She isn't the most beautiful female in the world, but she is very beautiful to me inside and out. After asking her to dinner a week ago and her turning me down, she calls this week and ask me what I'm doing and we ended up going to a movie. It's to try and be romantic right now with anyone but I wanted to, knowing her she would fight every effort I would make and ask why, why, why? So I try my best to just remain friends with her. She even told me she thinks this guy at her church might be looking at her and she is interested in him if he ever approached her. I'm not sure if she told me this to make me jealous or to test me and see what I would say. Or is she ready for a real man in her life?? Well I keep asking her about it and she seems to not be much interested anymore, even after our long talk about men and how we act. She like the natural, traditional female role and wants to be chased, and not be the chaser. So she is willing to let this good guy go.

So as friends we go to the movies, I've always had feelings for her, but after the many times she shot me down I got the message so I probably won't be going there with her for a long time. By the time that long time is up, she would probably have a man or even be married. Well she drove; she didn't want to drive to Queens so I drove over to her place. We then went on a long drive to the movie I was admiring her beauty, even when we got to the movies I was checking out her little 100 pound frame. Not the most curvaceous female but still good, well good enough for me!

We went to see a sappy love type girly movie, it made me very depressed so I was very quiet on the ride back. I should tell her I got depressed after seeing that movies and see what she says. Well we ended up at her place, she instantly started getting ready for bed, and she had a whole day of church the next day. When she got in her night clothes the door closed behind me and on my way home I went.

So you see guys can be friends with females!